My hat's off to you!! You came out of this sitch with guns blazing and who won? Yeeesss...you did. YOU!
You might want to read up Train's threads over in Infidelity and Raine's in MLC. Since your H's at the stage where he's opening up more and more about the affair, I think this is also a good time to check out Dear Peggy website and print out an article at a time for your H.
Be very sparing with this as you don't want to spook H with too much information all at once.
