Ok, is it really really terrible that I am getting some small satisfaction from seeing my H struggle to handle our D's bedtime tonight (he's putting her to bed at my house). He doesn't have a lot of patience and resorts to anger/threats (which are never followed through on)? I used to be so controlling and get so anxious about it. Now? I'm relaxing on the couch letting him deal (not ignoring but not stepping in to rescue).