Got some intel that W's two BFFs are 'done' with helping her in her sitch. The one BFF was guiding her through the S, but neither had any idea of OM initially. After I confronted W about OM, she talked to BFFs about the R. Not sure how much she told them, though. I guess both of them told her to drop contact with the OM, but she's not listening or talking with them about the sitch anymore. I see that W has dropped contact with almost all of her 'old' friends. These folks have been in our lives for ~15 years, so its a pretty big leap.
I guess she makes settlement on the house this week. I've asked her when she was going to come get her stuff and she seemed to deflect and said; I'll be moving things a little at a time. I said I think its best to move all at once. She said she would see when she could come. That was two weeks ago, no contact about it since.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)