The idea that there was something you could have done/not done that would have proven that this situation is really under your control after all is a fantasy.
You refusing to move out was based on what you knew at the time and what you believed was best. She didn't get what she wanted and she's angry.
Being angry at you is a way to push your buttons, make you feel like a heel, and hopefully, get you to do as she wishes in the future.
Don't fall for it.
She wanted "space", then she does the work to get it. Simple.
Hang in there...
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Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?