You need to go on the offense to get him off your back. Right now you are on the defense and you feel out of control. I would ask your attorney as part of discovery to request Smokie submit for a drug test. This will be part of your case that he is an unfit parent. I suspect that if you can get your attorney to make this request, Smokie will run for the hills. Figure out what else you can do or ask for which will make him run and go after these. This will be fighting fire with fire, but it is probably the only way to get him to run.
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