Yes, it is worth it. You h is counting on you giving up and giving him whatever he wants. You want to be left alone and that's not going to happen until your divorce is finalized. If you remember, even when you lived in OH, you had a lot on your plate and he wasn't giving you much in the way of support, monetary or moral at the time. Divorce proceedings aren't easy, but you'll get there, but you have to toughen up, look at everything that is on your plate and dig in. Life is never easy and if it were, we would be living in the Garden of Eden.
You can do this. You are not someone who quits when the going gets tough. Dig in and get those questions answered and back to your lawyer. That would be one less thing you would have to deal with. You can do this. You just don't want to face the work right now and you will only do it if you are pushed and this is one time you have to do the responses. Show these quacks you can do it and get them in before your h. I know you can do this. One item on the list at a time. Don't look at the entire list and think you have to do them all today. Do one item, check it off and go to the next one. You've already accomplished quite a bit w/respect to D12. D20 is pretty much set to leave in January. You've got this, Heather. All you have to do is dig in and take it one step at a time.
