I know that my xh's lawyer saw him coming. The same thing your h and Shining's...fools, both of them. They don't want to settle things in a peaceful manner because they are adult enough to do so. They act out and like kids, stomp their feet and try to bring us to our knees that that we will give them everything. It's the nature of the MLC beast.
Heather, you aren't alone when it comes to what he's doing. Many of us have experienced the same thing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
