Claire7, Thank for the feedback. I probably would respond differently if she looked "stereotypically" depressed. And would urge her to get help. If I were to Do that now I don't know that she'd see herself as being or needing help. She has been motivating herself in regards to school and parenting. That is where most of her (non gaming) focus goes. I wouldn't exactly describe her as lazy because that is not quite it. She just defers doing a bunch of things to me and just stopped doing things she previously took care of. I will watch for depression and see it there is some way I can address it without getting into a R talk.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
