I meant to add something else. After your behavior in the bar, you don't have much room to say anything about your W's actions at the birthday party. If you want her respect, you have to lead the way, instead of behaving just as poorly as she does.
IDK, maybe you saw it as getting back at her. But this does not work. You can't expect her to show you respect when you don't act respectful. Am I making sense?
yes it makes perfect sense sandi its just so not me idk what got over me i think its just the months of rejection from W and a combination of drink and a pretty woman been there at that time.