Jefe, thanks for reposting that post from Maybell. It was really wonderful.
Little, I feel very similarly to what you expressed. I am in a darker place lately. I feel hopeless and so angry and sad and hurt. I don't get what happened and I don't get how he can just move on to all these other women like I meant nothing to him.
But when I read your words I see hope still for you. Your BF is on his path, like Maybell's post said he is probably sad, happy, hopeful, confused, missing you, hating you.
In a way those who barely hear from the ex should be happy not to get caught up in the rollercoaster that those who see their ex every day have to deal with. Have you read HP's thread? Wow. For a while he was getting quite a ride every day.
Just keep moving forward, focusing on yourself and trying to think about something other than the ex. It's easy to say and not easy to do. Eventually he will come around or not, and I'm realizing now there is not so much we can do about it. It's a long road.
