I'm sorry you're feeling so down today. Holidays are difficult.

But he doesn't know you had all that going through your head.

What could he have said that would have been better?

If you don't want to call him for your D, don't. But is that who you want to be? Or is that Claire in reaction to perceived hurts from others. Don't give your power away. You control you.

You don't know what your life will look like in 9 years but you've already decided it will be terrible. Why not choose a different picture? One that has D having both parents there standing behind her. Both parents happy that their D has reached an important milestone. Intact or not they will both still love her. Isn't that the important part?

Last edited by labug; 11/30/14 03:33 PM.
Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss