Heather, I'm so sorry that he continues to throw crap at you. He's trying to imply that you destroy the home, i.e., in most cases that means holes in the walls, toilets destroy, vanities destroyed, flooring destroyed, etc. If I know you, there were none of these things that went on. You had to keep your home clean in order to homeschool. From the photos that you had on your website, the outside of your home looked good and certainly no siding was destroyed. He left you holding the bag and w/very little income coming in. My question would be...how did he expect you to keep the home up if there was no money coming in? If it hadn't been for your neighbors loaning you a mower and your friend coming over and helping out a bit, you would be up the creek w/o a paddle. As a mother of two and attempting to work from home, you did the best you could.
Now, about all of the correspondence from your lawyer, it sounds like your h and his lawyer are doing this to get you to scream enough and just agree to everything just to get them to do away. Don't do it.
Yes, the motion to leave is requesting more time to respond to the interrogatories. I don't know what he has in the way of documents and receipts when you handled a large majority of that type of stuff at home.
No, you don't hate him, you hate what he's doing and what his attorney is doing. It's an ugly process and believe me, there were days when I thought I was nuts, but I stood my ground, just as you should.
The drama is unfolding and the bottom line, it's all about money to your h and he doesn't want to give you one red cent for nothing. For every time he's in contact w/you and the girls, there comes another letter w/something to rattle you. They are only nice when they want something or when they are up to no good.
As for work, you put in a lot of time last week. Hopefully things will settle down, but for now, you've got to find a way to keep your focus on your job when you are working. I know, the drama keeps on rolling in and it's upsetting...but you need this job more than anything right now.
Come here and ask questions about the divorce process. Many of us have been thru it and can tell you what you may expect.
No, you are not crazy, but he's doing a darn good job of driving you to the crazy train. Don't let him.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
