Mighty, I am happy to hear things are progressing. Can I make a suggestion? Keep your eyes on the long-term and not the short term. There's still choppiness ahead.
And be careful providing advice. Things work in square circles for these kinds of episodes. Two steps forward, one step sideways, cha cha cha.
Glad your kids are doing well and that you're still healing. And that you're getting the chance to heal together with ex. Don't forget about the alone time though. It's a lot to handle and might be better absorbed if you have that recharge time.
Just a few thoughts.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."