Thanks sandi, I think there is a good chance that W will hear about the flirting, if that has a positive or negative effect I don't know, but I do know that I won't sleep with another woman until I know that there is no hope. Another thing I should add sandi is that on Bd me and W had been to a family party in a local bar and all night she was flirting with other men, well when we got home I pulled her about it and we had this massive argument which was the start of her decision to leave me
