I'm going to say something, and it is not judging, but i hope a forwarning. There is a saying here I believe 25yrsmlc uses, "Keep the road home paved smoothly". Some people in your stitch might think that refers to doing everything your WAW wants, basically becoming a doormat. I don't think it means that at all. The way I see it is that you keep your nose clean. You don't run out and get involved with another woman. That could really complicate things, and you talk about placing barriers on the road back home.......that could do it! I know, you were had no intentions of getting involved, but based on what you said, it would have been pretty easy to go too far, and then trouble would really mount.
You got a big shot of ego serum from a woman who would have slept with you, had you not left. You were doing some MAJOR flirting. Do you not think that it will get back to your W that you were seen kissing another woman?
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I walk to the next bar on cloud 9 I love my W and want my family back together but I now known what ever happens I'm going to be alright
Why, b/c a horny woman came on to you, and that's what it took to let you know you will be alright? Look, you felt good b/c your ego was fed. But that is only temporary and it will take a lot more than bar hopping and womanizing to make everything alright. You have to have something more solid. So, get your head straight and start DBing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
