Thanks sandi for the great advice I will read up on personal boundaries, the feeling I get from W is she is not in love with OM or any man come to that but she is in love with herself and she wants the best man she can get, I'm sure if I can pass these tests I will win her back.
Update on my GAL Well last night was very interesting, I hit the town night life with a couple of male friends one of who is also going through a bad patch with his W who also happens to be a close friend of my W, anyway we go into this one bar where they had a rock band playing, the drinks start flowing and we are having a good time when a woman who is known to me and my friends and my W walks in and noticed us so joined our party a few more drinks later she asks me about the situation with the W and if we will get back together and I told her I just don't know, she then leans over to me feels the muscles on my shoulders and tells me I have a beautiful body she then kisses me on the lips just a peck but wow I could feel the sexual tension between us this woman is no slapper she is a high value very pretty woman right up there in the same level of my W we chat for a about an hour and we really connect then my friends decide to move on to another bar so I stroke her hair and give her a peck on the lips and tell her I will see her around, I walk to the next bar on cloud 9 I love my W and want my family back together but I now known what ever happens I'm going to be alright
