Ganb8te 2 - WAH - lost in translation

[Old Dog]

Thanks, Lisa. Oh, yes. I have gone back to DR many a time - particularly the bit on why nothing seems to be working. So much of the book is about what to do when there is contact; there's a lot less I what to do when there isn't.

If it isn't working try something else. My DB coach said to me too many people put too great an emphasis on going dark: it's just one strategy.

And if there's minial contact to begin with, what's the difference? I had this problem as I work away from home. In fact still have it too some extent as I'm too fearful to phone home during the week. If I do phone, my wife's tone of voice sounds as though she thinks I'm being a nuisance.

See if you can spot the elementary mind reading mistake.

I don't get guys. So I took myself out for a post-Diner en Blanc breakfast (yes, bacon is involved). I'm sitting at a breakfast bar overlooking the table of 2 guys. By the looks of their breakfasts they also went to Diner en Blanc ;-) Anyway, they have barely said 5 words to each other. What gives? Why go out for breakfast with your mates and not talk?

Too early for footie chat and if bacon is involved, well ... gotta concentrate (and I'm a veggie).

Last night was awesome - a really special evening. Particularly interesting was the walk back home along the street I described before. I had several exchanges with random people. One girl said I looked gorgeous. One guy said wow as he walked past. And one guy was just thoroughly confused by why I would be walking along said street wearing a long white dress, with flowers in my hair and carrying a beautiful white flower bouquet. He invited me to hang out with his group for the night. I said thanks but no.

So glad you're looking good and feeling fine. Love it :-)

By the way - everyone looked so smashing in all white, particularly the guys. I highly recommend you guys out there pick up some fitted white shirts, white pants and shoes. Your W is sure to turn and look!

What about trousers? Are we allowed to wear trousers? I'd feel a little underdressed with thm.

And what about that hedge? I'm sure to be dragged through it backwards.