Hey, Little. I didn't appreciate that you were also in the same boat re no contact. I thought you had gone dark on BF, not the other way around. I suppose the net result is the same, though. I agree - it sux. I wish I could reverse time to when we were still living together and start DB all over.
I'm not sure what we can do when we have no contact. As you say, it's challenging because our H/BF don't get to see our changes.
I went semi-dark. He's receptive and friendly if I text first, but he's one of those folks that likes to remain friends with exes; I'm so not interested in that. I'd like to see if perhaps lack of me in his life will help him miss me, but who knows since he's boinking someone else.
Like LisaB said, I'm going to keep the door open a crack -- friendly if he contacts first but backing off on contacting first, myself, for a bit.
Originally Posted By: 2thepoint
[Long, Well-Thought Out Post Goes Here]
You have passion and a fighting spirit. Put those gifts to work.
Thank you for your presence and input in my thread! Your words resonated with me. I appreciate that you took the time to write them.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
