Newcomer With Hope (3)

[gan]

Hey, Little. I didn't appreciate that you were also in the same boat re no contact. I thought you had gone dark on BF, not the other way around. I suppose the net result is the same, though. I agree - it sux. I wish I could reverse time to when we were still living together and start DB all over.

I'm not sure what we can do when we have no contact. As you say, it's challenging because our H/BF don't get to see our changes. Also, I find it hard because many of the things I need to change require contact with him. Have I learned to communicate differently? Maybe - hard to say when we're not talking.

Anyway, just wanted to say that I feel your pain.