Originally Posted By: job
Don't judge the amount of time it takes you to complete your journey against others who post. Each person will make the journey at a pace that is comfortable for them. Please stop beating yourself up and thinking you should be over it by now....this is not something you can wave the magic wand and it be over....it takes time.


Right. And who's to say when our journey is complete anyway? When we Reconcile? When we Move On? Hardly.

Our journey only ends when we are dead!

I like to aim to be content with who I am and where I'm at, every day. No one else has a say in this, it's up to each one of us.

You're doing great Bright. Everything you need really is within you. Bust On!


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl