Shining wow- what amazing kids you have! And as UR says- of course- look at their mom. Sounds like you did great handling H. I find that when they are acting like a$&hats it sometimes makes it easier to detach.
By the way- I did not realize you lived in the lone star state! I somehow missed that and saw it on Mighty's thread. So....... Me too. Maybe we can get together sometime- though I'm not sure how we contact each other if we can't put our email on here???
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown