Bklyn - You are dealing with a lot but remember you are the mother of his children. That's a huge distinction no matter what the future holds. It puts you on a totally different level from any other woman. Always will.

I remember when my girls were young like your babies. Life was so exciting every day. I bet they are going to go crazy now that it is December. Holiday decorations everywhere and hoping for snow. My girls still go kind of nutty for snow but we live in the south so it is a BIG deal.

Glad you are feeling better. Hang in there and know you have plenty of people here ready to listen or offer a little sympathy.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou