Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

I was wondering Sandi if you have anymore advice or what is coming next?

The reason I ask is I still remember something you said. You said something to the affect that they won't come out of the fog until she feels some sort of loss or reality of the situation hits her. With Christmas coming up, I have to think this might be the most real thing that will ever hit her. You have to understand how important this holiday is to her. She looks forward to this holiday all year long. She loves every part of it. Most of all the kids and there presents. You really have no idea. I think in the next couple of weeks is going to be really important. So I was wondering if there is anything I should do or shouldn't do or she's going to do?