newbie needs help part 5

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25yearsmlc, to answer a few of your questions. Our relationship with her brother and his family has been good until the last few years. We went on vacation s together and did a lot of cookouts etc. The last few years she became different around her brother. I can't say that I didn't try to fix things between them. I just didn't understand her issues with him. As far as what have I done to improve myself. When the Affair came to light and talk of D this past spring. My wife got a coaching job that required me to take a much bigger role with kids. Picking them up from school and cooking them dinner.also 12 Saturday s in a row. I really looked at myself and became much more active in our church and bible study.I had to pick up the roll of spiritual leader since wife walked away from church. Through my relationship with God I think he has humbled me. I have been consistent with my faith and know that I didn't honor or love my wife the way God intended. I do believe that a Christian lifestyle with kids is what would be different in future R together. I