Don't judge the amount of time it takes you to complete your journey against others who post. Each person will make the journey at a pace that is comfortable for them. Please stop beating yourself up and thinking you should be over it by now....this is not something you can wave the magic wand and it be over....it takes time.
Amen. Listen to Job. My sitch started in 2010 and I thought I was slow too. Many on this board have come and gone and many on this board will tell you that yes, I was slow, but that doesn't make it wrong. I'm still not done. Getting there? Yes, but not quite done. Handle this on your time. There is no set time. You'll get there when you get there.
Take care.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
