I feel the same way when my WAW lies to me through her teeth. It pulls every string inside of me (and pushes every button).
What is the psychology of that? Check out Borderline Personality Disorder. There are lots of things in there that are out of your control. Including stopping a W who has lost her mind from lying about everything.
There is this sense of entitlement, that they are entitled to their own reality, their own rules, everything is justified under their new reality. It's scary when you start to dive deep into it.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015