It's funny how when a WAW shows some sort of humanity after months of being distant that the LBH (me in this case) feels a wave of emotions. It's almost like you jump back into arms that aren't there.
They come in, they pull back. They are totally inconsistent. Mine specifically is showing all the traits of someone with NPD / BPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder / Borderline Personality Disorder).
It kills to see someone you love detonating their entire life, with your kids and you in the blast radius. And you just get to see it over and over again as they orbit, pull back, push in, over and over again.
But at least you get to know the pattern, and know there is nothing you can do to stop their sickness.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
