newbie needs help part 5

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Mr Bond, she hasn't! I need to ask you what you would do with the following! The kids twin S6s and D12. We had thanksgiving as a family at our home. We were invited to her brothers for desserts. She hasn't spoke to her brother in 6 months or sil in 6 months and we live 10 minutes away. I have kept my relationship with bil. They have 2 kids that are close with our kids. Anyway waw said she would go for desserts and then canceled at last minute. I took kids. My sil told me S6 asked her if she was glad that they had their kids.Other S6 got upset when mom took off to store thanksgiving afternoon to go to store without saying goodbye. His comment was mommy is leaving again very upset. I have tried to protect my kids from all this, it is just getting more difficult as I sense they know something is not rite. D12 is always trying to get waw and I to do things with me. I see her frustration. How did you handle kids situation going through your crisis.