H wants to go to the funeral with me tomorrow. To support me and our friend.
He says he's going, I say we should talk about it.
He complained that I'm controlling. So I'm treading lightly here.
But I don't think in light of how the last 24 hours has been that he should go. There will be lots of emotions, he's not stable with his meds, I might accidentally breathe/touch him/cry and god forbid set him off into an angry state. The last thing I need is for him to have an angry scene at a funeral.
I'd much rather he not go and have to make excuses as to why he's not there than to risk a blow up.
Should I just keep my mouth shut and hope for the best and trust that he can keep his composure in a room full of people? Or put my foot down and ask him not to go?
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
