HP, I know the holidays do a number on almost every single newbie and the WAS which is why you find the vets circling around the DB forums to offer extra support.
Back to the game plan and re-focus. Sounds like a plan, buddy.
WMB,
I wanted to circle back to you as you posted a comment:
Originally Posted By: wmwb123
I've seen exposure work to end affairs many times over the past several months. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. My personal research (following many threads on many different forums) suggested that exposure was more likely to achieve reconciliation. Was I wrong? Well there's no way to know now, is there? Just as there's no way to know if exposure would have worked when it wasn't tried.
All success stories whose Ms have been restored you read about here were/are achieved with zero exposure (or nearly zero). They have never considered exposure and worked extremely hard on themselves that re-attracted their wayward spouses. I like DB so much because it is the best EVER self-improvement program for it forces one to look inward and examine one's beliefs, values, patterns and attitudes.
Personally, I've experienced the most personal growth during the DB process and have witnessed many posters grow/evolve as well. EVERY SINGLE one of them is a success story regardless of the outcome of their sitches. Dang, I won the "Gold Star" award!!
I am sure you would agree with this sentiment, WMB.
