Another "family" thing this afternoon. WAW and family asked that S11 be there too. I talked to WAW about noon and she asked if we would stay for dinner too. I told her I had not planned to and did not want to invite us over. She said there should be plenty. I said okay and said I would bring over some apps. I made an appropriate app, her favorite. She acknowledged the app when I put it on the table. She had opened the wine and saved a glass for me, a new vintage. She had poured a glass for me. I heard her say, as she was cooking, she would get some of the app in a moment if there was some left. I grabbed a plate and put some app on it, and set it next to her wine and walked away. When she returned to the wine, she had some app. She never commented. When the app was almost done, I put the last two on her plate and said nothing. (I'm the guy she was a fool to leave;))We all had dinner, jokes exchanged. I was charming and witty with the family, just like old times. She laughed a few times and joined in. After dinner it was like neither of us knew how to act. She became shy, yet made points to interact with me. weirdness. I think sandi2 was right. ( funny the relationship talk on sat radio was saying the same thing to a guy today). I need to pull away more and not be. I need help knowing how to do that with a small child between us. I already do minimal contact. Maybe she liked us tonight? Does not matter until she says something to me.
Last edited by NewB3; 11/29/1412:46 AM.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.