Wonka and Train talked me down from the very same ledge not 24 hours ago. For me it wasn't exposure, but presenting W with an ultimatum.
Patience, grasshopper. She is emotionally all over the place; it's critical that you NOT be. Work from your intellect, stay cool, stay focused, as I tell my flight students; maintain heading, altitude, and airspeed.
My W can get downright cruel when she gets in a panic state. In the past she has attacked my worth as a husband and my very manhood. It has taken me a long time to see it for what it is...panic, fear, and loathing. Not of you, but of the situation...and herself.
I get your anger, trust me, I do! But she needs you to be the bigger man here. You do not have control over her. The more you accept that, the better off you will be. Be the best man YOU know how to be, regardless of her behavior.
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Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
