I wouldn't worry about any of that. When it's time, it will be time. You're doing great. Besides, I have a hard time believing that ANYONE would think you are dull and uninterested.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3