Ok, another co-parenting sitch I'd love some perspective on:
H had D wed-thursday night. "She" called me to say goodnight on Wednesday (which is unusual). And it was great to speak to her. I texted yesterday afternoon to ask when would be a good time to talk to her. He texted back "we are eating now, not sure if it will work out because there are so many people here, blah blah, but I'll try" And then, "I want you to know that if we don't get to call you it's not for a lack of trying".
I responded, "I know you will try, and if it doesn't work out, please give her a hug and kiss and tell her I'm thankful for her".
Probably not a great idea to push myself into his tgiving dinner like that-- maybe came across as needy.
But I cannot imagine that if he requested to talk to his D on a holiday, no less, that I would say, "I'll try, but I'm not hopeful it will work" like he did.
Resolved...next Time I won't ask, I will just call and ask to speak to my 4 year old D.
Thinking of bringing this up at mediation on Friday. I'm annoyed at his behavior. Do I get to express frustration (you know, like he did to me last week?)
Would love thoughts...
I think I've let go. I really have almost no desire to be with this man.
