Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right? We all know what she is doing is wrong, she does too. You have been working really hard toward being a better man, you have to ask yourself if doing that is working toward your goal.

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Doesn't she have to start living with her choices?

She is living with her choices, is it your job to be the judge and jury? The truth always has a way of coming out, you don't need to be the "bad guy" in order for that to happen. Just don't have a time frame for that. You know what they say about karma.

If you decide to continue fighting for your M and you work things out, exposing what is going on can have a negative impact for you.

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What I'm I doing going through another day of this?


I feel your pain, I've been asking myself this question quite often lately.

Hang in there!

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since