Oh, and here's a good one: he wouldn't consider it cheating now, because he has told me that he wants to have sex with other women.
LOVE that.
Yup, my H told me in Feb he wanted a D, dropped him at the airport and (although unproven) he went and the spent the weekend with someone, probably another women. He changed his FB status, got (prob already had) a new skype account, spent a few days with ow in the UK before coming on family vacation in July. But, it's not cheating because he told me he was done. He won't admit to any of this of course. He's been home since Oct. Sleeps in the other room but makes sure his phone is with him at all times. Not that it matters because he has passwords on his phone and computer.
Do not try to put logic on anything he is doing or saying! He is not acting logically or reasonably, he is acting on emotion! We all know the two don't always agree!
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. I am just not sure about the 180s and the rest of the strategies while attempting the LRT. I mean, at this point, he does enjoy my company, and does love me, and does still live here, and ...
I could have written this, except I'm not in LRT. Are you sure LRT is where you want to be?
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since