I just know that we never really have resolved the SSM thing, and I certainly tipped that first domino, (unintentionally and unknowingly)so I always keep in mind that all of this is related and I bear a huge part of the responsibility for where we have gotten.
Do you want to explain this a little more?
You are in a SSM because of YOU? And you think that is why he sleeps on the couch?
or
You are in a SSM because of him and that is why he sleeps on the couch?
or
You are in a SSM because of BOTH of you and that is why he sleeps on the couch.
