True, but I need to do it without my W knowing that I have access to her phone and email.
You can bring it up during MC in a way that is checking to see if W is indeed complying with no OM contact. It is important to start building trust. That's the key right there.
Hmmm it appears as if someone from the MB site has been lurking in the shadows here reading my situation and rather than ask about it here mrwondering's gone back to MB to attack me there.
Some people just don't have anything better to do with their lives.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.