Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I am very down tonight after having time with WAW family. I came home after my family Thanksgiving lunch and fell asleep. I received a text from my ex mother-in-law and followed three minutes later by phone call from WAW. She was wanting to know when I was coming over. I arrived a few minutes later with flowers for the host bottle of wine and some nice appetizers. My ex watched me out the door as I parked and waited until I got out and came out to the steps. She asked me how everything was and said they were about to have some leftovers. I walked in and she kind of let me be. I was fine with this is, but I did not know how to act. She immediately hit me with some humor about the wine that I brought and made a few offhanded jokes about some other things. She then walked away and let me be for most of the evening. I was very comfortable cool well-dressed and friendly to everyone. She did seem uneasy about the situation and was curious to know what my plans were for tomorrow and she wants my oldest son to come visit with everyone. I then went into the room where the appetizers were and she followed me. She asked me something which I don't recall and then informed me that she had been off the whole week. I later talked to her father and said it was good that she realizes the importance of taking time off now as she would've never taken time off before. I am not sure what the future holds for me and her. however, I appreciate the input from you Sandi2. I'm just unclear, other than dating others now, (which I don't feel I'm ready for) to have her see that I've let go. Please share some more with me.
Last edited by NewB3; 11/28/1403:01 AM.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
