Hi Jefe, congratulations on a nice Thanksgiving. Holidays can be so tough, and you handled yourself really well.
Your W seems like she is very different than the rest of us with walk-away wives. I say this b/c:
- she remembers your past fondly saying she "wouldn't change a single thing".
- And asking you at the meal whether she was a good wife, also seems unusual from the usual things that wives who have checked out of the marriage would say.
- Finally, the fact that your W is putting on weight seems to indicate that her focus is not on herself and making herself attractive to someone else.
I'm just observing, but I think your sitch has more reason for hope than most of us here. Have a great rest of the weekend.