newbie needs help part 5

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Got a little irritated with waw this morning. I just tired of her
Avoiding reality of our situation. She was all excited to cook thanksgiving dinner. This morning she asked me if I looked at her phone. I hadn't, so I told her I didn't. Anyway I decided to go for a drive. She followed me out to my truck and asked me what was wrong. I don't know if it is because of thanksgiving or what but I just told her i was really disappointed in the way she has treated me and the kids the last year. Instead of being great full for what she had, she just trashed me in every way. I was not angry but just matter of fact. I just let her hear it, I wasn't going to be her friend. She has decided to act like she's 20 and it has been a big negative on how are daughter views her. I said she can believe anything she wants and make fun of me for trying to save our m.,But I was there for the kids while she was out sneaking around and lieing and being deceitful. I then went to visit my sister for a few hours. She called me and told me it was not true, her trashing me. She was greatfull for what she has. I said no for what you had. You don't have that anymore. If you want to try and fix it you can, but I don't want to be freinds and I won't be freinds. I didn't marry her and have kids to be treated like this. Anyway dinner was great. Tonite, we are going to her brother s for desserts. She has completely alienated her brother and his family for the last yr. I think it is a big step for her tonight. I am not getting my hopes up but see a different attitude from her. I am not going to get to excited , I think she might realize that she has caused a lot of damage and hope she feels like trying to fix some of these things .