Heather, Right now, he's on a fact finding mission. What he does with the information will be anyone's guess. He may not go for custody, you'll have to wait and see what his lawyer will propose. For all you know, he could be asking these particular questions to rattle your cage and get you anxious and uptight enough to say enough and let him off the hook. Again, we don't know what his game plan is, but it will begin to show in the weeks ahead as to exactly what he's looking for. During this time, keep your cards close to the vest as much as possible. Don't let him see you sweat!
It's important to remember, that each and every husband and wife, that have children together, go through something very similar w/respect to children, i.e., custody, visitation rights/schedules and child support when it comes down to divorce.
Breathe!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
