He texted D12 and without saying Happy Thanksgiving, asked her, "Do you like going to work with your mom?" He then made some light comment about the snow and said he loved her. He also called her by the nickname his family insists on using with her, although, she hasn't heard from them in what? a year?
Job,
I really wasn't offended, necessarily...for me, IDK, sometimes I don't clarity on why I do the things I do until I have some adrenalin surging through my veins. I had a moment of clarity about my father and I let it out.
I'm doing ok. I managed to read two Harry Potter chapters and I brought in three buckets of Christmas decorations and helped, with D12, to put things out.
D20 cooked a really, truly fabulous dinner. It was awesome. We sat on our beanbags and watched Elf while eating way too much.
I'm now taking a two-hour break from the girls. I told them I am napping. I just need to turn it off for a bit. I'm ok except my chest sorta hurts. I feel lots of tension.
He hasn't asked for custody. And, honestly, I'm not sure he will. I panicked and that's my worst fear. Absolute worst fear. The reality of this, however, may not be based in fact.
You know how MLC-ers are struggling to find their own identity?
Well, the thing that's always scared me with Smokey is his LACK of identity. He is easily pushed, pulled and prodded along. And, combine this with some really crazy inlaws and a mean atty...I'm sure he has convinced them all that I've kept D12 away from everyone. Well, and my inlaws are more than willing to go with that story because they get a Get Outta Jail Free card too.
Mom is spending Thanksgiving with crazy stepdad. I knew she was keeping him available in case her high school sweetheart didn't work out. Ick.
Last edited by LoisB; 11/27/1408:27 PM.
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