Heather, I'm sorry if I struck a nerve w/you, but I'm trying to offer up some advice and suggestions to help you get ahead of this train wreck that your h is rolling your way. I do understand where you are coming from and the road isn't easy right now, but it will be in time, i.e., you have to get through this painful fact finding mission.
You've got a lot to think about and yes, preparation work for the discovery questions that will come along, if they haven't already. I know you'll get the stuff done, but right now you are angry and I hate to say this and it's not making excuses, but many of the MLCers drop this type of stuff on us around a holiday or special event. It's to throw us off our game, ruing our holidays and yes, make us as miserable as they are. I wasn't surprised to see that you had gotten some stuff this week, but I'm sorry it had to be yesterday.
On another note, glad you are having a good hair day and your dinner is delicious. Kudos to your oldest daughter for coming through today.
P.S. You aren't ruining anyone's holiday by your postings. MLC, depression, etc., doesn't take a holiday and that's why we are here posting, i.e., to help each other get through the holiday.
