Heather, no need to apologize for venting here. It s@cks that you received all this info right before the holiday. Job gave you a very good advice. It is probably good that your atty is waiting for the other side to lay down all their cards. Don’t panic. Think about positive outcome.
Enjoy the dinner and the weekend. I’m sure by Monday you will have more clarity about what you need to do next.
Thinking of you today .
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state