I'm attempting to follow the course that you recommended. It seems only prudent to heal/resolve the injuries known by my wife. I have NO DESIRE to punish my wife. I just want to begin her healing process for the damage I've caused.
Jefe, (interesting your choice of screen name) her healing process is hers.
Do you see the control in that statement?
Amends are really about you, not her or any other person.
Can you take your focus off your W and know that she'll be OK?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
