Heather, I'm very sorry that this no info came to light w/the holiday in full swing. I thought he might be up to something when he asked several times about D12 and school. He comes across as kind and caring, but what he's doing is digging, digging for info and that's why I continue to caution you about how much and what you tell him. He's not the man you use to know and love, he's the enemy right now and you've got to be at the top of your game.
As for responding, do it Sunday evening or even Monday, but it's the holiday and no one, especially lawyers, are looking at their text messages today. Also, please hold off texting the mother you met until tomorrow. It's the holiday and she's busy sharing it w/her family. Tomorrow is soon enough to text her.
What else has your h inquired about? We now know he's asked about d12 and school, car insurance, and the condition of the house. What else has he mentioned?
For now, make your lists, but do not email/text anyone today about the situation. Keep the focus on what today means and be w/your daughters. Okay? Tomorrow is soon enough to get back into the trenches and work out your divorce situation.
As for the newspaper, it never stops, not even for a holiday, and yes, you've got to be on your best game for this because it's your bread and butter.
Focus on today and enjoy the time w/your daughters.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
