Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

Thank you so much I needed that.

I'm going to right some stuff to focus on instead of the bad.

She said she ended it with him.
Called me her husband.
Has talked about MC.
Has said she misses me.
Has said she misses our family.
Told me that all the invites that I offered where just with the kids and not just her.
Told me that if we where to work we need to figure it out with out the kids involved.
Has flirted with me and says she misses my very kissable lips.
Has tried to spend time with me.
Has asked me to do stuff.
Has said she really really wanted to do every thing with me that I've asked but just doesn't want to confuse the kids or hurt them.
Has said that she is not going to move in with OM. Which means she has two choices life with me or an apartment she can't afford.
Has asked about spending Christmas with me.
Has said that OM is not who she wants to spend the rest of her life with.
These are all very positive things and way different from when it was a month ago.

Like Sandi said she is going to go through some stages of getting over OM. I just can't push to hard. I know they are going to meet again when he comes back in town. And I think that is why she is holding back from us. Like I have read before they always want one last good bye to OM. To put an end to it for closure. She knows where her heart truly lies. Other wise she would not be doing or saying all the things lately. So focus on the good things!!!!