The main difference between 2 and 4 seems to be who you spend time with, no? So if it comes down to those, you should feel ok doing 4 over 2 if that's what you prefer. Either you are with your family or you are with your friend. It's up to you.
As for whether he is ready for 3 or 1, I say listen and see what he says but try not to pressure him. What's more important to you - Thanksgiving 2014 or Thanksgiving 2015? Give yourself the best chance at getting what you want in 2015.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Last edited by ganb8te; 11/27/1412:43 PM.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
