Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

When things go bad they go bad.

The wife had the kids tonight and asked if I would come over to go through the Christmas stuff to split up. So it was a hard night splitting up ornaments. It was going really good she was showing closeness and flirting with me. Then I got a text from BIL asking to stop over and have a beer for his birthday. Then it when it horribly bad from there. It's clear she is undesided about everything.

Then I think I shoved a big old foot in my mouth. She asked why her brother was texting me and not her. And I said well I could take the kids home and we could both go and she said she had to work other wise she would. Me and the kids got ready to go and she asked if I was going to still go over there and I said yes because he invited me. She said with the kids? I said sure why not. Then she got really mad and said that is her family not mine and stay away from them. Get your own family. And I said you can't stop me from being friends with your brother, he is my friend and always will be my friend and family. That's when she said I knew you couldn't change about being close minded. Only your way and never change. Going to do what you want and never care about anything else or any one else. She made a big deal how it was her family and she wouldn't talk about why it was so important that I stay away from her family. Especially with the kids. I told the we never talk about her and they where just my friends. She made a fit about she didn't need anyone. It ended bad where she wouldn't talk anymore and ways crying really hard. I left by saying that I think both our emotions are running high because of splitting up Christmas stuff and maybe we should talk later when we calm down.

I don't feel good about this.